“Love is not beautiful if it is not exciting”: true, but also a little ‘ healthy serenity does not hurt , especially if we are about to pack up and finally give us the luxury of a holiday for two . Before the quarrel becomes a real crisis , we try to extinguish the fire before it flares up and make all that good we have built together disappear. So let’s see five ways to get our relationship back on track and prepare ourselves with the right mood for the long-awaited summer break .
And ‘so, it happens to everyone, no one is immune: the quarrel is part of being together, but the important thing is to know how to manage .
If fatigue , anxiety, stress make us lose the trebuchet too easily, we try to limit the damage and instead of the long snout , silent cell phones and dinners that more than anything look like the antechamber of the gallows, we find the way of shortening distances and putting a stone on it .
Who is wrong or right, it does not matter: with calm and tenderness everything can be solved , even more so if we expect a period of leisure and happiness for two .
Under the sheets: instead of putting the ashes under the carpet, let’s settle under the sheets. A meeting with a high rate of eroticism is certainly the best that can be done to replace the couple and to quickly forget the arguments. After the outburst, we take off our best weapons: shower, perfume, lingerie to scream: the result will be assured and peace too. A restful sleep in each other’s arms and voila, you’re done. Simple and commonplace, but it works!
Take it by the throat: you know, the appetite comes with eating and if you eat well, the conclusion can only be sweet. A dinner by candlelight, a few delicacies preceded by snacks and bubbles, a bit ‘of laughter and some caresses: how to resist so much attention? The ending is obvious, but no less intriguing, even more so if under the dress we have a linen that leaves nothing to the imagination. The dessert should be served in the bedroom, we certainly do not lack imagination.
Far from where: before risking a pouting holiday and forgetting money and health, we try to run for cover by organizing a romantic getaway with a short mail ride. Whether it’s a single night or a weekend, the important thing is to leave the house and catapult us into a romantic context where the watchword is only one: relaxation. Let’s take the time we need, get away from the usual routine, let’s leave the hectic life behind and focus only on us. The distance makes us see everything in a different perspective and allows us to give value to the here and now. What are we waiting for?
Popcorn and chips: if we do not have time to prepare a delicious dinner, we focus on a quiet evening based on home cinema. Sometimes even a little ‘relaxation on the sofa looks like a mirage and now it’s time to leave the bills to be filed and the shirts to be ironed. Let’s go to the supermarket and refuel with popcorn, popcorn or at least order a pizza: nothing more beautiful than watching a film close, neighbors and then comment, laugh or reflect together on what we have seen. Even sharing an almost extraordinary everyday life can serve to bring the situation back into balance. Little expense, so much surrender.
As before: to rediscover the lost understanding, we can also try to find those little things that once made us so much pleasure. A walk hand in hand, even in perfect silence, can be perfect to ward off bad moods and bury the hatchet. After dinner an ice cream and a light and carefree chat will be ideal to temper the tension; once at home, a double shower and a reciprocal massage will do the rest. Let’s turn on a bit of music, low volume and slow rhythms: nothing better for a day’s end in the name of feeling good together. The holiday could not come at a better time …